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This section is devoted to wise words on love, and explanations for all those confusing issues which come up in our personal and interpersonal lives.

When it comes down to it, I myself have not insignificant insight into such things, but frankly I am often completely inept at expressing my understanding. I believe in being passionate about being passionate. Do one thing and do it well, so to speak. I find the idea of analyzing my own self to be somewhat.. dirty, if I can put it that way.. untrue is perhaps a better word.

This area may be thought of as an extension of Philosophy and my personal writing. It is meant to contain what insight I happen to have while the muse is strong. Really, I'm just as.. well probably quite a bit more clueless than most people about such things.

This little section didn't get the amount of attention it deserved, mostly because love is a roller coaster without safety devices. =(

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[edit] On Men

Sometimes: "caring" means "helping", requests are submissive and advice is dominance.

[edit] On Woman

[edit] Slang

cock-block
When a girl is out with a 'guyfriend', and the guy is too attentive, such that the girl is effectively warded from even innocent contact with other guys. Such a guy is a 'cockblock'. Examples include a guy who assumes too much of their relationship and is too 'cuddly'. See Hurtbag.
hurtbag
A person who is emotionally clingy.

[edit] Tidbits

  • Love is like a box of chocolates. "May contain traces of nuts" -- Sy
  • Falling in love is like riding a bike.. a bmx bike without breaks where you have to wear down your running shoes to stop. -- Sy


  • Nothing takes the taste out of peanut butter quite like unrequited love. -- Charlie Brown
  • Love is when someone hurts you. And you get so mad but you don't yell at him because you know it would hurt his feelings. -- [1]
  • You can break love, but it won't die. -- [2]
  • I'm just a notch in your bedpost, but you're just a line in a song. -- Fall Out Boy, Sugar, We're Goin Down.
  • It is impossible to love and not be wise.
  • Absence sharpens love, presence strengthens it.
  • A broken heart is what makes life so wonderful five years later, when you see the guy in an elevator and he is fat and smoking a cigar and saying "Long Time, No See."
  • "In her first passion woman loves her lover, In all the others, all she loves is love." -- George Gordon Byron, Don Juan. canto III [1821], st. 3.
  • Love, such as in society, is only the exchange of two fantasies, and the contact of two bodies.
  • The most important thing in a relationship between a man and a woman is that one of them must be good at taking orders.
  • Love is a perky elf dancing a merry little jig and then suddenly he turns on you with a miniature machine gun.
  • Love does not just sit there, like a stone; it had to be made, like bread, remade all the time, made new.
  • The truth is that there is only one terminal dignity - love. And the story of a love is not important - what is important is that one is capable of love. It is perhaps the only glimpse we are permitted of eternity.
  • The greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved - loved for ourselves, or rather, loved in spite of ourselves.
  • Love, I find, is like singing. Everyone can do enough to satisfy themselves, though it may not impress the neighbors as being very much.
  • Romance, like the rabbit at the dog track, is the elusive, fake, and never attained reward which, for the benefit and amusement of our masters, keeps us running and thinking in safe circles.
  • Love is as much of an object as an obsession, everybody wants it, everybody seeks it, but few ever achieve it, those who do will cherish it, be lost in it, and amoung all, never...never forget it.
  • There is no disguise which can hide love for long where it exists or simulate it where it does not.
  • If only one could tell true love from false love as one can tell mushrooms from toadstools.
  • The passionate are like men standing on their heads; they see all things the wrong way.
  • Love is much like a wild rose, beautiful and calm, but willing to draw blood in its defense.
  • I did not know I loved you until I heard myself telling so, for one instance I thought, "Good God, what have I said?" and then I knew it was true.
  • Loving can cost a lot but not loving always costs more, and those who fear to love often find that want of love is an emptiness that robs the joy from life.
  • To fall in love is easy, even to remain in it is not difficult; our human loneliness is cause enough. But is a hard quest worth making to find a comrade through whose steady presence one becomes steadily the person one desires to be.
  • Many who have spent a lifetime in it can tell us less of love than the child that lost a dog yesterday.
  • A life without love in it is like a heap of ashes upon a deserted hearth, with the fire dead, the laughter stilled and the light extinguished.
  • The more I think about it, the more I realize there is nothing more artistic that to love others. -- Vincent van Gogh
  • When a man has once loved a woman he will do anything for her except continue to love her.
  • A woman who pretends to laugh at love is like a child who sings at night when afraid.
  • The secret of love is seeking variety in your life together, and never letting routine chords dull the melody of your romance.
  • There are two kinds of marriages - where the husband quotes the wife and where the wife quotes the husband.

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Vincent van Gogh
The more I think about it, the more I realize there is nothing more artistic that to love others.
-- Vincent van Gogh
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